James Donaldson on Mental Health - How to Talk to Kids About Sex and Consent

Talk about pressure The stereotype of nonconsensual sex includes a woman repeatedly saying “No,” and a man who ignores what she says and acts, perhaps violently.

But the reality isn’t always like that.

“When one or both parties are feeling some kind of pressure, they may end up doing something they regret,” says Dr.

Parents should address the dangerous role of pressure — feeling or applying it — when it comes to consent.

It’s never okay to pressure someone to engage in any kind of sexual or romantic activity — or to go further or faster than they’re ready for.

Likewise, no one should ever pressure you to do the same.

Peer pressure can also play a role.

Kids may worry that they’re “behind” their friends sexually, or feel pressure to do things they’re not ready for to win approval.

If someone is applying pressure, don’t be quiet or stay put.

“It’s okay to say, ‘You know, you’re really making me feel uncomfortable, I don’t want to do this,’ and leave the situation,” says Stephanie Dowd, PsyD, a clinical psychologist.